Monday, August 10, 2009

To Do: Marry the Perfect Man...Done.

This weekend Mr. Lipstick gave me a stunningly beautiful present. I hugged him tightly and kissed him passionately. Of course, I took some pictures to share with you (of the gift, not really of all the thanking). It begins like thisand then continues like thisand then finishes like this.

My gift may make a little more sense if you see it in its entirety and in context.

This retractable-removable-driveway-blocker is Mr. Lipstick's practical response to an afternoon of terror. We were outside talking to several neighbors, the children walked up the driveway to get some toys, and then to the backyard. I always have the driveway blocked off with a wheelbarrow, a trashcan, something...except for that day. We were standing...right there.

Just minutes after my children began playing in the backyard, a massive diesel truck pulled in our driveway. I frantically waved my arms for the man to stop, to slow down. He thought I was greeting him. I yelled at him, grabbed the kids, and ran in the house. I wept and screamed the sort of primal scream that emerges when the deepest pit of your soul has nearly witnessed your worst nightmare. I sat in a chair and cried for four hours. I didn't get better that night. I wasn't better the next day.

Mr. Lipstick took care of feeding and bathing JBB and Pretty Girl, answering their questions, dressing them and taking them to school. He took care of me too, and he built this wonderful gift for me.

A few weeks ago, I posted this verse and I wrote, "Sometimes things happen in life which terrify your soul. It is handy to know this verse. And believe it." One of my dearest bloggy buddies The Preppy Princess asked about the Scripture. This is the full story.

There are probably as many opinions about the intervention of God in human affairs as there are people on this earth. My feeling is immense, overwhelming gratitude. It is the sort of thankfulness that washes over you like a much too powerful wave in the ocean...the kind that takes your breath away, forces you to stop breathing for a moment, and focus on nothing but the surrounding power of the water and the wind, and of course, your own insignificance and lack of power.

When I pray, I try to thank God for protecting my children. Usually I can't form any words, but tears flow freely down my face, my chest swells with emotion, and I know that He knows.

15 comments:

LPC said...

So glad all is well.

Prissy Southern Prep said...

I am so glad your children are safe. There is NOTHING worse than the feeling of fear that your children are about to be hurt. NOTHING. Thank you for posting this.

Southern Champagne Wishes said...

That is so scary - I cannot even imagine! Your husband is a great man to take care of you all so well! You are very blessed! Tell me, does Mr. Lipstick have a single brother?! (he he).

Petunia said...

Oh my gosh--that is so scary! Thank goodness the children are safe and sound. It's amazing how life could change in an instant!

Anonymous said...

Sweetie,
I am glad you have shared this with your bloggy friends. Yes,the Lord is gracious and wonderful beyond what we can even know. Why he is so gracious and loving is also beyond my own comprehension. Maybe this will help someone else and assist you through the healing process. Mommy Lipstick

Stephanie Faris said...

Your husband is incredible. I'm so glad this had a happy ending.

Polka Dots & Protein Bars said...

How truly horrifying. I am so sorry you went through that, but so grateful nothing happened. Love the new gadget!

Lisa said...

you got me...thank you for the birthday wishes and thank you for posting this story. i am taking a quick break from vacation to say that i am so grateful for finding you and your wonderful blog.
i so appreciate the way you tell a story and how you appreciate the practical & important gifts that we all receive now and then.
i have been standing in the same driveway before...there are no words...and i also find myself praying with tears and know that He hears me loud and clear.
good job Mr. Lipstick, good job.
Lisa

luvallthingsjcrew said...

Yes--you can never be too careful!
Your husband is a GEM to get that driveway blocker!
Your kids are lucky to have such wonderful parents as the two of you!
Blessings to you and your family!

The Preppy Princess said...

Oh Miss Lipstick, thank God, quite literally, that your darlings are safe and sound. And what a blessing Mr. Lipstick is, that is the best gift.

Sending you a smile, and lots of hugs,
tp

Marissa {sparkles and fate} said...

Yay for your husband!

The Pink Owl said...

So glad you're children are safe!

Heather said...

Oh, this is such a beautiful post. I know exactly what you mean. I am so glad your children are okay.

Kassie said...

What a perfect idea! I'm glad your kids are safe!!

GrannySmithGreen said...

Bless your heart!

Look up Matthew 28:20--yeah!