Sunday, April 26, 2009

Happy

Remember that Clinique fragrance "Happy"? I always liked it, but it kinda stunk on me. Not great with my body chemistry. Now Nonna is a different story. She has that enviable body chemistry that can make any fragrance smell intoxicating. Her favorites are "Georgio" and "Red" and people have literally followed her for aisles around the grocery store just to keep catching a whiff of the wonderful scent of whatever she happened to be wearing at the time. She, of course, will be mortified that I have posted this on the interwebs-just like she is mortified when people say, "ooooooh, Mrs. Nonna, you sure do smell good!"

Well, I digress. The title of Clinique's "Happy" was my segue to writing about my happy weekend, but the tangent about Nonna's perfume was just too tantalizing. Somehow it was one of those magical weekends with perfect weather and just enough time for relaxing and productivity. Our family spent lots of time together, most of it outside. Last year I had a near obsession with going to "the park." This year Mr. Lipstick is in his third year of law school and life is much more hectic. Time is more precious. Going anywhere seems like a hassle and the backyard is suddenly appealing.

This weekend we tinkered with our newly planted flowers and played with all the usual toys. We also found a little brown frog. I freaked out because I don't like frogs. They are squishy and they have that strange pulsating chin...thing. Well, before you know it, JBB and Pretty Girl were freaking out too. Then I realized that I was in the process of screwing up my kids. Here we were-in our backyard in the presence of nature (learning experience) and I was completely and utterly destroying the entire moment. So...I ran upstairs, grabbed the camera, and we started taking pictures of the little dude so they could show their friends at school. Then we watched him for the next fifteen minutes or so as he hopped across the yard and we yelled, "bye, Froggie" as he disappeared into the bushes.

JBB discovered that Mr. Lipstick's giant pile of stone (that will become a wall around the back yard) is actually a giant pile of fossils and I discovered that laying in the backyard looking up at the sky is about the most relaxing thing that one can possibly do on a Sunday afternoon. It only got better when Pretty Girl curled up with me. Everyone seemed very content and no one even said a word about "the park."

9 comments:

deeps said...

there is some frangrace all through this post...
nice read..

Heather said...

What a lovely post! I feel the same way about frogs but I want to encourage my son to learn about nature, etc.

Pharmacist Erin said...

I share your freakout about frogs. I think they're so icky!! I spent a lot of the weekend in our backyard,too. I love a great Spring day in the backyard!

Polka Dots & Protein Bars said...

Sounds like a great post... and I feel the same way about perfumes... they just don't always smell fab on me.

Something In The Glass said...

I'm screwing up my son in the same way. He screamed one night over a harmless bug (following my lead, of course) and actually started crying because he was so scared of it. Then yesterday, we came across a snake and had to go back in the house.

This is not a good thing. I'm turning my kid into a pansy.

thepreppyprincess said...

Oh Miss Lipstick, I'm sorry about the trauma, but I was laughing so hard at the "strange, pulsating chin...thing". Too funny!

And then you paint such a beautiful scene of bliss with Pretty Girl curling up next to you as you gaze at the sky....bliss.

Happy week ahead!
tp

Anonymous said...

Well Sweetie, the frog thing is genetic. I have been afraid of them my entire life. Glad you are doing better for the children. And yes you are right about Nonna, it is amazing. And remember that "treasures" are often found right in ones own backyard.

Mommy Lipstick

Mom x 2 said...

I love the way you write. I feel almost like I'm reading a book and your posts are mini-chapters.

You should get the book, Mitten Strings for God (not a religious book, but a great book on motherhood). You are living it, my friend.

morewineplease said...

AHHH!! I think this is the first time I noticed Mommy Listick post...and she used her blog name! How cool!
Love the post, loved you deciced to change your attitude about frogs!